In the first grade this year, we have girls named Kaitlyn, Kayla (two of them), Kaylee, Hayley, Kylie, Riley, Callie, Chloe, Carla, Lara, Kari, and Kira. While the only duplicate name is Kayla, it’s quite easy to get the others confused, as they all sound so similar.
In fact, most names have “sound-alikes” — names similar enough in quality that one could serve as as substitute for the other. For example, if you like Sophia but want something less common, you might be drawn to Safiya, Sophronia, or Serena. If you love Olivia, you just might like Ophelia, Octavia, or Lydia. If you love Ava, a name like Eve, Ada, or Aoibhe might be to your taste.
There are a few names, though, that have a sound all their own. They feel distinctive, and no other name has quite all their qualities. While I suppose that could technically be said about any name, here are a few that feel particularly special:
- Elizabeth – She could easily be the name with the most nicknames. She’s also one of the few “th”-enders. But those aren’t the only things that make Elizabeth so distinctive. Of all four-syllable names, the vast majority are stressed on the third syllable (like Isabella, Anastasia, Arianna, Carolina, Alexandra, etc.). I could count on my fingers the number of reasonably familiar four-syllable names where the stress falls on the second syllable. (Add ones that aren’t incredibly familiar, and I might need to use a few toes.) Of those, Elizabeth and Evangeline are the only two that don’t end in the “uh” or “ee” sound. (For the curious, others with the same rhythm are Olivia, Victoria, Veronica, Demetria, Octavia, Angelica, Felicity, Serenity, Persephone, Penelope, Calliope.)
- Evangeline — She has the same rhythm as Elizabeth and co., but she’s the only other consonant ender.
- Naomi — Abby at Appellation Mountain once wrote, “Nothing sounds quite like Naomi.” It’s so true! I’m not sure if it’s the two vowel sounds blending into each other or the fact that very few three-syllable names ending in “ee” have the stress on the second syllable. Delaney and Adelie are the only others I can think of, but even then, they’re not Naomi.
- Abigail — Abigail doesn’t seem like she should be so distinctive, until you try to suggest substitutes for her. Avigail is obviously related, so that’s cheating. The closest sound neighbors I’ve come up with are Annabel and Amabel, but they don’t have the same comfortable, homey, biblical feel.
- Eleanor — She’s familar and oh-so-English, but her nor ending gives her a bit of exotic flair.
- Rosamund — A good number of names end in mund or mond. Edmond, Raymond, Esmond, Osmond, Desmond, Sigmund — but did you notice they’re all boys’ names? Rosamund is the only currently-surviving feminine name to carry that Germanic element. It means “protector,” so it’s perhaps not surprising that it survives primarily in boys’ names. Okay, I have dug up one girls’ name from medieval literature — Clerimond — but who has ever heard of that?
- Dolores — It’s pretty rare to find a three-syllable middle name ending in a consonant that’s stressed on the second syllable. Dolores is one of the reasonably familiar few S-enders to fit this pattern — a possible similar name is Damaris, though some contend it should be stressed on the first syllable, so perhaps that doesn’t even count.
- Rhiannon — Again, tons of three syllable names that are stressed on the middle syllable end in A (Vanessa, Sophia, Marissa, Amelia, etc.), but it’s rare to find ones that don’t. Rhiannon is the only N-ender that immediately comes to mind. As such, she makes quite a distinctive middle.
- Guadalupe — While tons of girl names end in vowels, very few end in the “ay” sound found at the end of Guadalupe.
- Phoebe — Chloe, Zoe, Daphne, Xanthe… but there’s something different about Phoebe. Maybe it’s the bizarre spelling, maybe it’s the fact that her two short syllables rhyme.
- Penelope — Penelope has a few sound-alikes: Persephone and Calliope are probably the most obvious. However, neither of those sounds so thoroughly Greek and at the same time so thoroughly English as Penelope. While Persephone and Calliope feel cutting edge, Penelope is familiar and could almost be seen as frumpy.
- Jennifer — No wonder so many parents in the 70’s and 80’s fell in love with this name! It’s funny to think of Jennifer as distinctive, since she was so common in my generation, but how many girls’ names end in fer? Almost all the other popular names of her decades ended in the “ee” or “uh” sounds. Jennifer sure was special… that is, until everyone used her and she began to sound very unspecial.
- Alexander — Alexander has got to be one of the most popular middle names for boys. It’s not surprising…he and Maximilian are the only two familiar English names to share his rhythm, unless you venture into the realm of Spanish/Italian names or highly biblical names. Considering the fact that so many popular boys’ names end in N, the R-ending of Alexander provides for pleasing contrast.
- Xavier — Xavier is the only male name starting in X to appear in the U.S. top 1000 (unless you count Xander, which still feels very nicknamey).
The good thing about choosing one of these names is that it is not likely to get confused with any others. Your son won’t be another Aidan/Hayden/Kaden/Jayden/Brayden. Your daughter won’t be a Kayla/Kaitlyn/Kaylee/Kylie. Teachers everywhere will thank you. We really don’t like getting our students’ names confused.
Unfortunately, if you’re in love with one of these names but feel it’s too popular (or not quite right in some other way) you may not be able to find an acceptable substitute that will appeal quite as much.
If you are looking for a similar-sounding substitute for a name you love, check out Baby Name Brainstorm. For those of you who haven’t seen it, it’s an innovative baby name search tool. You enter a name you like, and it creates a visual web of names that sound like your name, have a similar meaning, or have similar historical/literary connections. This tool is still in its early stages, and Lach (the creator) is working on improving its suggestive powers. Be sure to check on it again in a few weeks/months to see what he has come up with.
Just a word of caution — most of the names in this post turn up few to no sound alikes on the Brainstormer!
The names included on this list are my subjective impressions. I’m sure you feel there are some I shouldn’t have included and some that I’m crazy to have omitted. Feel free to comment if so; I’d love to hear which names sound most one-of-a-kind to your ears.
Oh, and special thanks to Noelle, Pretty Mama, Isobel, and Eva for their suggestions in compiling this list!
Interesting reading, very nice indeed, Emmy Jo! Your first, Elizabeth was my logic in choosing Josephine for my girl. Same stress pattern as popular Olivia (Which I’ve always liked) and Sophia.
Of the others, Eleanor (spelled Elinor, like Dashwood) and Rosamund are favorites as is Penelope, Alexander (too popular now but Leo & Simon would have been Alexander & Nicolas if I had gone with his first suggestions, which seems a bit “everywhere” for me, even then) & Xavier. Xavier is one I’ve liked for a long while, since HS at least. I love his suave feel. And that X! Anytime I see an X initial, I pretty much assume Xavier.
Jennifer may have a -er sound that few other girls names have, but how many Jennifers are there? There are three in my family alone, two I’m close to, the other one, not so. I want to to like Jennifer but got tired of hearing her 20 years ago and need a longer break than this. (Emily is starting to feel like Jennifer in my head). I’m actually finding Guinevere appealing these days, shoot me!
Jennifer almost didn’t make the list, and I’m still not sure she should be there. After all, she does have marked similarities to the rarely-heard botanical Juniper and the French Genevieve. But despite other 80’s “-er” enders like Heather and Amber, I still get the feeling that she would have felt so exciting and atypical to parents who first discovered her in the early 60’s.
I’m not actually recommending using Jennifer at this point, but I can see why she caught on!
And, Lola, I am the last person who would shoot you for liking Guinevere!
Ok – I’m late to this party, but I have to say that on one of the other name blogs I frequent, Juniper has appeared on like 3-4 expectant parent’s short lists in like the past month! Even though I can see big things for Juniper, I can’t get on board myself. Probabaly because I’m not a fan of botanical names myself.
Thanks for the input, Angie! I don’t mind “late” comments at all. Actually, one of the things that bugs me about the blog format is that it’s so time-centric. I’m glad my posts are still being read a few months after they’re written.
Botanical names do appeal to me, especially as middle names. My husband and I actually have Marigold on our middle-name short-list, to honor his grandmother Floris Marie. Still, I’m glad they’re not everyone’s thing. If they were, they’d be boring.
Me again – late again. But I’m glad you don’t mind the lateness! I’m not sure why, but I do really like botanical names as middle name too, I’ve grown pleased with the combo Silvia Fern. However, in theory at least, I like honoring middle names more. I’m just not a fan of botanical first names, but even I don’t understand the logic behind my choice : )
I like Marigold as a middle name, and there are some exceptions to my “no floral middle name rule.” I do like as first names:
Laura, Laurel, and to a lesser extend Lauren, which are all variations on Laurel.
Daphne – again nothing more than the Greek version of Laura or Laurel.
Ione – which some people say is Greek for violet, but I’ve heard several meanings for it, including, a place name for some Island, Ionia I think? and “violet colored stone”
Poppy – but only as a funky nickname for Penelope.
Maybe I like these because they are established or less obvious floral choices in English or they are nicknames. Anyway I do have some appreciation for floral names, but would never name my kid, Lilac, Lily, Daisy, Violet, Rose…etc.
Naomi has a close cognate in Noemi, which is not uncommon in the Southwest US where I grew up. Another option is the less closely related Naima (na-EE-ma), which is on the short list should my wife and I ever have a daughter.
You’re right that Noemi is very close, but I wasn’t counting related names, like Naomi/Noemi and Abigail/Avigail.
Naima is a bit of a sound-alike, and since its derivation is distinct, I guess I should count it an as alternative. It’s one of my favorite Arabic names. I do hope you get the chance to use it. It’s gorgeous!
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Great list! It included a couple of my favourites that my husband sadly vetoed (e.g. Eleanor and Rosamund) as we were trying to come up with a name for our little girl. Incidently, I always thought that the “mund” in Rosamund came from the Latin “mundi” meaning “of the world”.
Nope, Charlotte Vera, Rosamund is strictly Germanic, and as such, -mund means protection. I’ve been thinking about Rosamund as a middle but today, she’s appealing as a first.. hmm, off to ponder!
Charlotte Vera –
Rosalind and Rosamund are both originally Germanic names that were re-interpreted as Latinate names and thus acquired secondary meanings. Rosamund originally meant “horse protector.” However, in the 12th century, King Henry II had a beautiful mistress named Rosamund Clifford. As a bit of a play on words, she became known as “The Rose of the World.”
Similarly, Rosalind originally meant “soft horse.” In the Middle Ages, it was influenced by the Latin phrase “rosa linda” (meaning “beautiful rose”), so you’ll sometimes see that definition listed on baby name websites.
I’ll admit that the Latin definitions are a bit more appealing. However, horses are beautiful animals, and many little girls go through a phase where they are very into horses, so I can see the appeal of “horse protector” and “soft horse” as well.
Lola — You’ve sometimes described your kids as “horsey.” Maybe Rosamund is a good one for you to consider for a second daughter! Josephine and Rosamund pair gorgeously.
I keep thinking that too, but Josie & Rosie? What else would I nickname a Rosamund? I’ve been stumped on this all day!
Emmy Jo, what a wonderful post! I love the way you break down names into not just syllables but where the stress falls. Thanks for including the list of 4-syllable names with the stress on the 2nd syllable.
Rhiannon – fell in love with this name thanks to Fleetwood Mac.
Guadalupe – good Catholic girl that I was I chose this as my daughter’s middle name.
Dolores – must share this info with my friend. You think a non-name nerd has ever noticed that about her name??
I would love to meet a little Penelope or Phoebe, or a Rosamund of ANY age.
You inspired me to go in search of other 4 syllable names with the stress on the second syllable. Here’s a few all ending in “a”:
Alexia – two of my cousins chose this for their daughters
America
Antonia
Domenica – like it a lot better than Dominique or Sunday
Erendira – name of a Purechepa princess in the early 1500s in Central Mexico
Congrats on another lovely post, dearie!
Christina, considering where we live, it’s a bit surprising that I’ve only met one Erindera. She played on my sister’s soccer team years ago. Unfortunately, I witnessed that it was difficult for some “gringo” tongues to pronounce properly.
I do think it is a very beautiful name, though. Very regal.
Christina — That’s a great list! See what I mean, though, about having to dig for them? Those who pronounce Amelia, Cecilia, and Cordelia as four syllables could also add those to the list, although I think most of us end up saying them as three-syllable names.
And to anyone who is wondering, Altec Freak is my husband, Brian. After being coerced into reading so many of my posts, I guess he decided to leave a comment! Thanks, sweetheart.
(And I had no idea you knew an Erendira. You really have to tell me about more of these awesome Spanish names you’ve come across.)
Great list! I think that’s exactly why I love Xavier – because he really does stand alone.
And while Alexander has a distinctive sound, the number of girls named Alexandra, Alexa, Alexis and even Alex is overwhelming. Some days I wish we’d called our son Alasdair!
I love Domenica – that’s just gorgeous.
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Great idea for a post! I think that’s what I love about the names that you’ve listed: they’re so distinctive. It’s so hard to face a class full of Kaylee/Kylie/Kenslie/Kaylas. I always feel bad when I get their names wrong, as I invariably do.
Wow – great post! Almost all of these names appeal on some level to me. I hadn’t realised it might be for exactly the reason that they don’t sound a lot like anything else (with the exception of Rhiannon, which reminds me of the much-heard Shannon for 70s children). Thanks for the great post – it has me thinking in sound-alike links/unique sound names in my head now!
I know exactly what you mean about names that sound the same; in my final two years of senior school I had a large group of friends (as opposed to the small and select clan I have now I’m in college) which featured a Kelly, Kerry, Callie and Cassie, not to mention three Sophies, two Gemmas and an Emma, a Katherine and a Katie and Nadia and Lydia! My did it get confusing at times.
Esme — That sounds confusing! I worry a little bit that the name we’ve picked out for our first daughter (Clara) will blend right in with the Kayla/Kaylee/Callie name lump. I still love it, though.
I’d just like to mention that there is a virtually unheard of Anglo-Saxon female name that ends in -mond, other than Rosemund. And that is Birdesmond.
Where did you come across Birdesmond? How intriguing!
I adore Elizabeth. It’s so versatile. The popularity explosion of Jennifer still puzzles me. It’s a very distinctive sounding name. Who’d have thought Cornish name would become so mainstream?
Emily:
This was such a neat post! I’m having so much fun going backwards on your blog. I didn’t initially like most of these names, but you’ve made me see them with new appreciation. Elizabeth is a timeless name, but far too common for my taste. You’re right, however; it is unique in it’s stresses, something I never thought about before. Another four syllable name you didn’t mention with the same stress pattern is Andromeda, which I think is a beautiful name but which doesn’t get a lot of use. Also, Angelica, but Rugrats ruined that name for me. Galadriel also has the same stresses, and ends in a consonant, but most people have never even heard of it.
The only similar name I can think of for Abigail is Gabriel, because I pronounce the first syllable as “gab” and not “gabe”. I can’t stand Delores; it irks me. It also has a somewhat negative connotation for me, as that was the true first name of the girl in Nabokov’s book “Lolita”.
My sister just found out she’s pregnant, and asked me what I thought about Rhiannon. Sadly, I’m not a fan. It reminds me of rhinestones and Rihanna, both of which I find tacky. Shannon seems way classier to me. I also prefer Phaedre (pronounced FAY-druh) over Phoebe. Phoebe bugs me anyway..How the heck do you get Fee-bee out of Phoebe?? I adore both Penelope and Persephone. I’m hard put to say which I prefer. On the basis of Greek myths, I like Persephone more. I always felt sorry for Penelope, faithfully weaving as she waits for her cheating bastard of a husband to come home.
Jennifer derived from Guinevere if my sources are correct, and I love Guinevere. It may pop up one one of my children someday. Jennifer is a pretty name, but far too common. Both names have songs I love connected to them: Leave the Bourbon on the Shelf, by the Killers, and We Laugh Indoors by Death Cab for Cutie.
Anywho, hope you don’t mind my novel of a comment. Great stuff you have here!